In fact, religious people might be the worst people in the world when it comes to being honest about our true feelings and what is going on inside.
Unfortunately, almost every religious person I have ever met has bought into the lie that “real Christians never struggle with sin; real Christians don’t get scared or confused; real Christians don’t stumble; real Christians don’t get discouraged; real Christians don’t doubt. And if Christians ever actually do any of those things, they don’t show it.”
We
choose to believe that it is more spiritual to hide our fears and
doubts and sins and anxieties and worries than to express them and
expose them and deal with them. We will not allow anyone else to know
that we have problems because they might think less of us spiritually.
And we don’t want people to think less of us spiritually, so we buy the
lie and bury the truth.
And if we do this, you see, we invariably end up leading a life that is focused on outward appearances instead of internal realities. It can’t work both ways. If how things appear, if how they look is what matters most to us, then how things really are cannot matter much. That’s what religion without relationship does. It seeks the approval of man.
1 Samuel 16:7 "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
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And if we do this, you see, we invariably end up leading a life that is focused on outward appearances instead of internal realities. It can’t work both ways. If how things appear, if how they look is what matters most to us, then how things really are cannot matter much. That’s what religion without relationship does. It seeks the approval of man.
1 Samuel 16:7 "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
#by-his-stripes.com #ByHisStripes